When someone’s physical life ends... 

Rejoice at the funeral. 

Speak of all the happy and loving memories. The good, the bad and the ugly. Laugh, cry, feel and release  

It’s a hard process. But think to yourself?  

Would I want everyone to be sad at this time and carry on not living a full life because I have passed over to the other side.  

I know when I pass over to the other side. That I have made a loving impact on the earth in my life, to close loved ones and to those who my smile may have brighten up there day. Kind words spoken to strangers or friends. 

Loving memories keep us strong. 

Sad memories bring us down and we feel hurt and pain. 

Know that when one life ends, a more beautiful life begins through the soul process of choice at heavens gate.  

Do you think lost loved ones on the earthly plane want you to continue feeling unhappy and devastated. Because it was their time to fly. 

Even short lived lives that still brought love with the pain.  

More joys come from happy memories.  

It’s okay to feel joy, followed by sadness because you miss them. 

It is natural to miss someone’s physical body and feel sad. Feel it and send peace and joy and love to them, wherever they might be.  

Remembering and feeling loving memories fills the heart with so much love and joy  

This is what you should be holding onto!  

Yes you may be apart, but a piece of their heart and kind nature lives on in you, with the feeling of love they showed you during their lifetime on earth  

This is the BEST GIFT anyone can give to another person a time in life filled with love, joy and happiness.